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Maybe you are working very hard for the chance to get back together with your ex? Maybe the break up just happen recently? And now, you can help but call them immediately? But somehow, you feel that this may not be the best thing to do at this moment. So you want to find out whether you should proceed.

Do you know what your next step should be?

Well, it really depends on your situation. For most situations, it will be best not to contact your ex for the time being. For how long? Well, one month is usually a good period of time. Of course, there are always exception.

For example, if both of you break up because of a very small issue, I do not see any reason why you should need to wait for a whole 30 days before getting in touch with your ex again. You should probably try to contact your ex much sooner, let say 7 days.

However, if the break up is due to a more serious issue such as cheating, then you will probably need more than one month. There is a very good reason why you should not contact your ex immediately.

A lot of times, people are very confused when they just experience a break up. A confused person have the tendency to make all kind of mistakes. So by not contact your ex, you are protecting yourself from committing all kinds of mistakes and thus prevent yourself from pushing your ex away.

For now, this is the best time to think about what you really want. First, make sure you are not saving a worthless relationship that should not be saved in the first place. But then, if you do think this relationship should be saved, then you are encouraged to work hard to save your own relationship.

Last but not least, try to avoid doing all kinds of desperate things such as calling your ex boyfriend or girlfriend one hundred times in a single day.

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